# OTHER_SPOUSE = the other spouse character, may be invalid object is_valid_grand_wedding_special_guest_trigger = { is_alive = yes is_adult = yes # Must be able to marry the other character if they are selected trigger_if = { limit = { exists = $OTHER_SPOUSE$ } can_marry_character_trigger = { CHARACTER = $OTHER_SPOUSE$ } } } has_been_promised_grand_wedding = { has_variable = promised_grand_wedding_by } has_promised_a_grand_wedding = { has_variable = promised_grand_wedding_marriage_countdown } activity_wedding_is_valid_guest = { age >= 3 is_at_war = no is_in_army = no is_imprisoned = no NOR = { exists = involved_activity has_trait = incapable } } activity_wedding_diplomatic_intent_impressible_target = { is_independent_ruler = yes any_neighboring_and_across_water_top_liege_realm_owner = { this = root } highest_held_title_tier < root.highest_held_title_tier NOT = { government_has_flag = cannot_be_vassal_or_liege } is_at_war = no save_temporary_scope_as = impress_check impress_intent_vassalization_acceptance_value > -30 scope:host ?= root }